“Be trustworthy as an ordinary matter of course.” -Master Sun Ah, the difficulties of trust. We all have trust issues, to some degree. Believing in others over and over takes a lot to do and sustain…especially after they have proven themselves untrustworthy more than one time.’ I am certain that we all have had aContinue reading “Trustworthy Leader”
Category Archives: T.E.A.M. Work
I Know They Don’t Care
“I don’t believe him when he says he cares. The last supervisor, I feel, cared too much until he started pointing his blame finger at me and then the respect was lost. Why should I listen?” This is a difficult one to answer, in any case I’m asked, because trust is not easily given byContinue reading “I Know They Don’t Care”
Anxiety’s Battlefield
The Crossroad Here we are, standing in front of something that we want but we can’t take the first step. What is it that’s holding you back? Is it fear? Self-doubt? Yes, and no, it’s official name is anxiety. You’ve come face to face with your desire of achieving more and the worry, nervousness, uneaseContinue reading “Anxiety’s Battlefield”
Call To Action: Stop Overthinking and Procrastination
This is a post that I wrote back at the beginning of the lockdowns. How Quarantine Can Build A Beast Isolation…lock downs…curfews across the world, sounds like the best time to start overhauling the negative mindsets that we’ve developed during our lives thus far! We’re confined to the walls of our homes for most ofContinue reading “Call To Action: Stop Overthinking and Procrastination”
The Delusional Mindset
“Where is he…I told him to make corrections and he didn’t”, is what I was asked and told today. Once again, let me add some context to this “What Do You Think” interaction post. The person that was being spoken about is notorious for their timeliness issues. As a coach, you have to be carefulContinue reading “The Delusional Mindset”
I Don’t Want To Point The Finger
“I don’t want to point the finger, but it may be that “person’s” fault” The lack of ownership can be seen a few ways but is honestly only one thing…a way to lose support or followers. No one likes to help a person that blames others for their faults. I am not aware of anyoneContinue reading “I Don’t Want To Point The Finger”
Because You’re Not!
“How do you have the energy to do that, after a long day?”. “Why are you doing that, when you should be resting?”. My answer, “because you’re not” or “because you won’t”. The question is valid, especially when you are wanting to call it a day and sit down like most people do. Let meContinue reading “Because You’re Not!”
Freedom
“with every line written, and all that I’ve given, music has been nothing more than a self-made prison” -Pusha T Sometimes, doing what you’re passionate about can make you feel like a caged animal. When you put your all into your craft, and the respect you think and feel like you deserve is not received,Continue reading “Freedom”
Stacking W’s
Settling is easy when you finally score a win. It’s easy to call it a day when you have finally achieved something. But let me ask you this, why stop when you can run up the score on the wins? The reason a lot of people stop in place is because they want to liveContinue reading “Stacking W’s”
Conflict Avoidance
“Has anyone spoken to them yet?”, I asked. Crickets and eye-shifts go around the room. What is it with conflict that makes people find an alternate route to either solve the problem or to bury it? I was in a meeting with a team and there was a lot of, “this has been a problemContinue reading “Conflict Avoidance”